What Are The Right Words To Praise And Encourage Children?

Many parents now realize that praise and encouragement are more helpful to their children's growth, but it is very interesting that many parents do not actually praise their children. How should you praise a child? What words of praise and encouragement for children are suitable for parents? Answers below.

1. How To Praise The Child?

Many parents don't actually praise their children. They say nothing more than "Awesome!" and "It's amazing!" After listening to such empty words, children can hear the perfunctory and carelessness inside.

The best way for parents to praise their children should be from the aspects of self-discipline, execution, a sense of responsibility, and time management.

2. Words Of Praise And Encouragement Of Children's Self-Discipline

Self-discipline is the most important character in the growth of children. If parents praise their children from the perspective of self-discipline, they can make children realize the value of self-discipline and gradually cultivate the habit of self-discipline in children.

For example, after a child has finished his homework, he can say: You did a really good job. You don’t need us to rush you. You can just do your homework when you come back, and finish it in less than an hour. What is this called? This is called self-discipline, which is very good quality.

I have heard a parent say something like this before when praising their children, and I personally feel very good: self-discipline and persistence will get closer and closer to the person you want.

3. Words That Praise And Encourage Children's Execution

If the child and the parent have agreed to finish the homework in 1 hour, the parent can praise the child from the perspective of execution: We agreed to finish the homework in 1 hour, and you really did it, so executive!

In such a situation, parents can also praise their children like this: Execution is a very important point in competitiveness. From doing homework, we can see that our children have excellent execution quality! Keep it up!

4. Words That Praise And Encourage Children's Sense Of Responsibility

Many children will participate in some small groups, such as school teams, class group activities, etc. If they have completed their own work, parents can praise and encourage their sense of responsibility. For example: although there are many difficulties in the process, You overcame these difficulties and completed the part of the work that you should have done. You have a great sense of responsibility! To know that the sense of responsibility is directly proportional to the opportunity, especially good!

5. Words Of Praise And Encouragement For Children's Time Management

Today's children are usually weak in time management. They like to play on mobile phones all the time, do not want to do homework, and procrastinate in doing things. These are all signs of poor time management habits.

If the child allocates time reasonably, parents can encourage their children with "whoever is more stingy with time, who is more generous with time".

In general, when parents praise their children, they should avoid too general praise, and try to encourage them from the aspects of self-discipline, execution, sense of responsibility, time management, etc., which will be of great benefit to the children's future growth.