3 Parts Of A Child's Body That Parents Shouldn't Hit When They're Angry

Our parents have always thought that "filial sons are born from the stick", so when we were young, our parents were very strict with our discipline, and they had absolute authority and right to speak, and we would not allow ourselves to refute a little. If there is a violation, it will attract a scolding or a fat beating.

Nowadays, people have a new idea about education. Many young parents know how to educate their children, but they only know that hitting them is not enough, but many times when children talk back to them, they are so angry that they have to take action.

When we hit our children, we are often angry, dragging the child over is a beating. Many times we don’t care where the beating is, but sometimes it is a coincidence that some sensitive parts of the child may be hit. Causing serious consequences, at this time it is too late for parents to regret it.

3 parts of the child's "lifeline", parents should not fight when they are angry, parents should figure out

1. Buttocks

Generally, when parents spank their children, they will first spank their children's buttocks. They feel that there are no organs on the buttocks, but a lump of meat. This place has a lot of flesh and can hold it.

In fact, parents don't know the large number of nerves distributed on our buttocks. If the hands are too heavy, it is easy to cause damage to the nerves in this part, which will affect the development of the child, and may even lead to abnormal development of the child.

In particular, the child's lumbar spine and spine are not fully developed, and it is easy to injure the child's waist when spanking, causing damage to the lumbar spine.

2. Brain

Many parents are also used to hitting their children on the back of the head, but sometimes parents feel that their slap is not too heavy, but for children, it is very likely that the strength is not well grasped, and concussion or respiratory failure will occur.

Therefore, everyone must pay attention when hitting a child, do not hit the child's brain, let alone the back of the child's head, especially the temples must be kept away, otherwise it will easily lead to blindness of the child.

3. Ear

Some parents also like to twist their children's ears when educating their children, but children's ears are very delicate. Many parents may not know that if the force is too strong, it is easy to twist their children's ears. If so, it may also lead to perforation of the child's eardrum, affecting the child's normal hearing, resulting in the child's acquired deafness.

Does beating and scolding a child frequently will really lower a child's IQ?

Murray Strauss, American corrections and domestic violence expert, conducted a follow-up survey and conducted an intelligence test on 806 children aged 2-4 in the United States.

Four years later, a second test was conducted. Through this follow-up survey, it was found that the average IQ of children who had not experienced corporal punishment was five points higher than that of children who were frequently beaten.

Strauss said: The more you play, the slower the child's mental development, even if it is played very little.

Strauss ' survey of more than 17,000 college students in 32 countries also showed that the higher the proportion of parents who spank their children, the lower the average IQ of the nation's citizens.

Of course, it does not mean that constantly beating and scolding children will make children's IQs lower and lower, but they may lag behind their peers.

Scientists have scanned the brain patterns of two three-year-old children. One of them is treated gently by the mother and often communicates effectively with the child, while the other mother often ignores the child's needs and even beats and scolds the child.

Through comparison, it is found that the brain graphics of the two children are also very different. The picture on the left is of the first child (treated gently), and the picture on the right is of the second child (often beaten and scolded).

The neurologist explained that the dark area on the right signifies a decrease in brain volume. The missing area makes the child's growth process lack wisdom, compassion, and other abilities.

Children who have been beaten and scolded for a long time may be more aggressive as adults, lack self-confidence, have poor career struggles, and are treated gently when they grow up to be kinder, more inclusive, and more likely to succeed.

Usually, parents and friends should first set a good example for their children. They don’t want their children to play on mobile phones by themselves. They can accompany their children to play more games to develop intelligence.

If a child makes a mistake, first ask the child why, instead of yelling and beating at the child blindly, you must find a suitable way to teach the child. Every good child is praised. You might as well try to educate the child from a different angle.