The Difference Between Babies Who Are Often Scolded And Those Who Are Not

The difference between babies who are often scolded and those who are not. Most parents hope to raise a good child, and at the same time hope that their children can listen to their own words and become more well-behaved. 

But it is the first time that children come into this world and feel a lot of things. Very novel, it is inevitable that sometimes there will be conflicts with parents, and then parents will classify them as disobedient.

When a child loses his temper and is disobedient, each parent’s education method is different. Some parents choose to beat and scold. Some parents choose to try to reason, and some parents choose to coax directly. 

These methods are not absolutely correct. Educating children is a very important thing, and parents must pay attention to it.

Every time the child is crying, some parents are very impatient and will yell at the child loudly, because some children sometimes lose their temper it is really difficult to coax. 

Most parents will comfort their children at first. No, just do it directly. This kind of education method was very common in the past.

Children who are "often yelled at" and "not yelled at" will definitely have different personalities when they grow up. The former may be corrected when he is young, but being yelled at by his parents often stimulates him and affects his personality. 

Growing up, the latter can't guarantee how good his grades are, but at least his character will not be too bad. This is the difference between the two. So what's the harm in yelling at a child so often?

The Impact Of Yelling At Children

In the past, parents often used corporal punishment to educate them. With the continuous change and progress of society, people's thinking is also changing. 

Most parents may not beat their children, but more often yell at children. Many parents may think that it is just Just scolding a few words that will not have any effect on the child, just want him to change it into a mistake.

But everyone does not know that this is actually a kind of verbal violence. Children who have been subjected to verbal violence for a long time are likely to develop an inferiority complex.

Because he feels that he can do nothing well, and no matter what he does, he will always be criticized by his parents. When doing things, you will definitely cringe, not dare to express yourself easily, and wrap yourself up.

In addition, parents often yell at their children, which will also have a certain impact on the child's body. Because when parents do that, many children can't continue to resist. 

Because they can't quarrel with their parents at all, and their parents always think they are right. Listen to your child's thoughts, and over time, the child's reaction speed will decrease.

What Should Parents Do?

1. Learn To Observe

Every child loses his temper for a reason, and he will definitely not cry and get angry for no reason. Every time a child cries, most parents are not willing to take the initiative to understand the reason for the child's anger. 

Coax, if this does not work for the child, the parents will still feel that the child is really difficult to coax.

In fact, this is not the case. If you don't even know the reason for the child's anger, and you just coax there, of course, it will be useless. 

The first step is to learn to observe and understand why the child is angry, which is very important.

2. Stop Your Bad Emotions

Most mothers are also very gentle people before they get married, but after getting married and having children. They have to worry about all kinds of trivial things in life every day. 

Which may accumulate some trouble in their hearts if the child keeps crying during this time. , it will naturally make people feel very upset, then she will lose her temper.

But having a child is one's own choice, so we can't blame the child for the reason, and we shouldn't bring our daily emotions into the home. As parents, when a child is angry after we observe its state for the first time.

We will To bravely say stop to your bad emotions, parents should try to communicate with their children. It is also a good way to chat with children as friends and observe they're true thoughts.

3. Listen To Your Child’s Thoughts

Most parents can't do this because they think that their children are too young and ignorant. They are irrational when they are angry and they never take the initiative to understand the reason for their anger. 

In fact, this is very wrong, because every child All have their own ideas, and even if they are crying, there must be a reason. 

As parents, we should learn to listen to the thoughts of our children and lower our attitude a little. This has a very important impact on the cultivation of the parent-child relationship. 

Some parents may feel that they are adults and are reluctant to communicate with their children. Such thoughts should not be Existence, because this is his own child, not only need to cultivate him into an excellent person but also need to draw closer to each other.

Summarize

When a child appears in a family, education becomes the most important thing for two people, and it is also a very difficult thing. 

Every parent hopes that their children can be obedient and sensible, which actually depends on the parent's education method. 

According to the data survey, communication is still very important. As a parent, you can try to actively chat with your children and walk into their inner world.

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